Double Standard 101

Picture two seats side by side that are in the color scheme of black and white. Now picture two individuals in these two seats, you pick the sides that they are seated on. I pick R for the male and L for the women. As you look at this image everything looks equal as a whole, right? but keep in mind that this is just from the look of things. Now let’s take things a little further,” why we are picturing to individuals in these seats"? The reason: these two individuals are single, **they say, when meeting someone you know in a few minutes of meeting them, if you would like things to move forward with this person. So moving forward the two have established that there is interest on both parts. Women fail to realize but at this point this is when it starts. I know you are wondering what I am referring to, well it is the start of the” double standard". Most women go into something three ways bitter, open or guarded. But most are open, willing and ready to see where things go. In my dating experience I have grown to know that men definitely don’t think like women, but that’s nothing new. So those three ways don’t pertain to a male at all. For most men meeting a woman at the age that is between 20-29 look at things from a just for fun view. I think that most women consider the fact that if a guy wants something with her than it will be. But why is that why cant I have my intentions within the relationships and pursue things in the order that I would like as long as the pursuit is at a reasonable pace.But we all know it doesn't work that way.I believe women are not given a fair shot right from the beginning. A woman finds herself having to prove that she isn’t this or that while a man doesn’t prove anything but what is in his DNA. Most women have to come into something accepting a man for who he is, so why not accept me for who I am and the way that I would like things to be. I sometimes look at modern dating as a circus. The structure of the way things have come to be is just pure entertainment. There is definitely a chemical imbalance; I know that it will take a while for things to balance but to get the balance we have to decode "double standards" from the way things are done….